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Find out how the law defines domestic abuse, and the different forms it can take.
Domestic abuse is behaviour that is controlling, coercive, threatening, violent or abusive. It happens between people aged 16 or over who are personally connected to each other. It can refer to a single incident or a pattern of incidents.
Abusive behaviour can include:
Read the Government's legal definition of domestic abuse
Domestic abuse can affect anyone, regardless of age, class, ethnicity, sexuality, religion or educational background.
Most domestic abuse is carried out by men against women, but men can also suffer abuse by women. And domestic abuse is just as common in same sex relationships.
Abusers can be a partner, ex partner or family member.
Domestic abuse also includes:
Children can be the victims of domestic abuse if they see, hear or experience the effects of the abuse, and are related to the victim or perpetrator.
Report a concern about a child
Domestic abuse can take different forms. It can be very frightening, but it can also be subtle. Examples include:
If you're experiencing domestic abuse, it's important to remember it's not your fault, and you don't have to live through it in silence. There are many organisations you can turn to for help and advice.
Get help from domestic abuse services in Sutton
Get help from a national organisation
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